Thursday, October 18, 2007

Your probably asking, "What happened?"

As most of our family and friends know, we were expecting twin girls on January 5, 2008. Just as with our first pregnancy, everything was going perfect, no pain, no problems, perfect ultrasounds, and a healthy mom. Then our biggest surprise ever...


Most of the first 48 hours of this ordeal was a blur, so please bear with me. It started Thursday, October 11, 2007. Emily called me that morning to say she didn't feel right, but was not worried about it. She had called the Dr. to be sure and they told her not to worry, but made an appointment for the following morning. That night around 6:00, Emily, Evelyn and I were eating dinner and she kept telling me she was getting "these pains" in her back and lower abdomen, but still really didn't think anything was happening. She could tell me when they came and went, and only lasted about 10 seconds each. We finished dinner and I told her to rest on the couch for the remainder of the evening. She kept telling me she could "feel it", so I began to write down the time and length of each. Emily was convinced what she was feeling were Braxton-Hicks (sporadic uterine contractions - sometimes painless but felt as early as 6 weeks). I became more and more concerned it was something more serious because I had measured the last six "feelings" Emily was having and they were exactly 10 minutes apart lasting between 10-20 seconds. I finally made the decision to take her to the hospital on the last one because I saw her wince. "That's it" I said, "we are going...". Even on our way to Mercy Memorial, she was telling me it was nothing and that she was going to be embarrassed because they were just going to send her home. "Great", I said, "then you have nothing to worry about..."


Uncle Andrew and Tara took Evelyn for the night and Emily's mom and dad accompanied us to the hospital. We got to Mercy around 9:00 PM, that's when our lives changed forever. The first nurse that checked Emily determined that she was fully dilated. "What?", no one in the room could believe it. The nurse nonchalantly told us she hoped she was wrong and was going to get another nurse. As you can probably guess, it was confirmed, the second nurse said "these babies will be here within 24 hours..." A collective feeling of disbelief overcame the room. They attempted to give her medicine to delay the labor as long as possible and corticosteroids to help the babies lungs develop as fast as possible. For the next four incredibly intense hours, they monitored her progress as the contractions became more frequent and more painful. Emily was finally given an epidural to ease her pain and stress on the babies. The prenatal team from Toledo Children's Hospital was put on notice to prepare for delivery and transportation to Toledo. Because of the high risk and seriousness of the pregnancy, the Dr. decided around 2:30 AM that she was going to take them by emergency c-section at 3:00 AM. I knew this time would come, but my heart dropped into my feet. Neither of us was prepared for this and my mind was racing as to what might happen to my wife, my unborn babies, and our daughter Evelyn. "How can this be happening?" I thought, the pregnancy was going great. It was time, I didn't have time to think anymore, all I did was pray for Him to watch over my family and give all of us the strength to make it through this difficult time. Our families were by our side hoping and praying as well (Thank You!).



We were in the operating room by 2:55 AM, the Toledo team had arrived (all 40 of them it seemed), and we anxiously waited to meet our newest baby girls. Less than 10 minutes later, both our babies were out and we heard them cry for the first time. The last six hours had come out in a flood of tears, I had never been overcome with so many emotions and questions in my lifetime. Are they breathing? Are they healthy? Do they have 10 toes? 10 fingers? What do they look like? Did I really hear both of them cry? All I could see was 30 people frantically trying to answer all of these questions for me. The Toledo team was spectacular and worked like a well-oiled machine. I could not believe how well orchestrated their work was, each knew what the other was doing and when. I could not have asked for a better outcome. I was still holding Emily's hand at this time trying to get a glimpse of my new daughters with no avail, I simply heard two cries and the dark hair on Kathryn's head. As fast as they had come, they were taken from the room to be evaluated by true undervalued professionals that I now have the utmost respect for.


For the next two hours (which felt like twenty), all we did was wait. It was not until around 5:00 AM that we got the news they were as well as could be expected for being delivered 12 weeks early. They were prepared for transport to Toledo and we had a couple of minutes to say goodbye to them. By this time Emily and I (and our families) had been up for almost 24 hours now, but in the last 8 hours Emily had gone into preterm labor, delivered twins, and they were now in the Toledo Children's Hospital NICU.


I apologize for the lengthy explanation, I just wanted to be sure everyone understood the exact circumstances that occurred. That night, our two newest angels on earth blessed us with their presence in a very special way. With all of that explained, I would like to introduce both of them to everyone. They were born on 10/12/07.


Kathryn Lydia Short
2 lbs. 8 oz.
15" long
3:02 AM

Sophia Grace Short
2 lbs 8 oz.
15" long
3:04 AM


Kathryn's middle name is from her great great Grandmother (and second cousin of the exact same name BTW) on my mom's side and Sophia's middle name is from her Emily's Grandmother. Kathryn is a dark haired brunette and Sophia is a light haired strawberry blond, no identicals here.


Enjoy some very early pics below.


Kathryn sleeping on her birthday, hugging her favorite blanket.


Kathryn already sucking on a standard pacifier



Mom holding Kathryn for the first time




Kathryn's tiny little fingers holding onto Daddy



To lower thier Bilirubin levels, they had to be placed under phototherapy lights to reduce jaundice, the nurses thought it would be cute (and it was) to draw "sleepy eyes" on thier eye covers. On top is Kathryn, on the bottom is Sophia. They look peaceful don't they?

Close up of Sophia being held by Mommy for the first time


Daddy holding Sophia for the first time (can you see her eyes open?)

Finally Sophia bundled nice and warm instead of being under the lights

More updates and pictures coming soon...

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Tommy: The babies are absolutely adorable (as I knew they would be). Tell Luan that since Kathryn is so feisty and a fighter, that she is her twin, and that as Sophia is so sweet and polite, she is my twin!!!! I wish I could be there to help or do something. Evelyn is going to be the best big sister ever! Lots of love, Aunt Lolee.

Anonymous said...

Tom and Emily.
You truly have been blessed with your two new Angels. We will keep you and the girls in our prayers. Let us know if there is anything you need.
Mark and Lisa

alexandra schmidt said...

tom: tell your whole bunch of cute girls that we are praying for you all here in germany, too. i'am so sure that everything will be fine.
we think of you all, jonny, milana, achim and sandra

Anonymous said...

Tom and Emily,
Oh my...do you have your hands full. Three girls!!! Glad to hear they are doing so well, and that you are able to hold and love on them. Praying for them to go home and drive you crazy! God is Good!
Love you guys,
Cyndy and Scott

Anonymous said...

Tom and Emily: It's amazing how much life can change within a few short hours or rather moments it probably felt like to both of you. Two more little angels to bless your family with and of course the world. You will probably never get all of your "Why's and How come's" questions answered, but everything happens for a reason as they say. You now have three little girls in your life that will have you wrapped around their pinky fingers, and by the look in your eyes as you gaze upon them, it seems like your newest ones have already done the trick. Tom and Emily, you have a beautiful family. As a mommy of three girls I can tell you now how exciting and challenging it can be and to deal with all the "You have three girls? lol So even though the beginning for you has been a prayer by prayer moment, minute by minute day, pretty soon they will be home with you and this time too will have seemed like a blur. We pray for Kathryn and Sophia every day. I myself heard in the NICU that they already have little attitudes, so it seems to me that you really should have no worries...well until, they can really start working those attitudes! We will keep in touch and be there to see you soon! We love you all very much!

Love, David, Shawn, Taylor, Brienna and McKenzie XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

Anonymous said...

Tom and Emily,
Your two new little angels are beautiful. All of our thoughts and prayers are with you and we can't wait to see you.
We've been trying to give you a little space knowing how overwhelming this all can be.
Evelyn must be very confused and frustrated not being able to see her little sisters. You have a wonderful family that will be instrumental in keeping her settled. We would love to help in any way that we can - please keep us in mind when you need a babysitter for Evelyn or anything else for that matter.
Love to you all,
Dale and Laurie

Anonymous said...

Tom and Emily!
Thank you for sharing your amazing story! I had tears in my eyes reading your heart-felt story and remembering those days with Liliana in the NICU! Stay strong! Kathryn and Sophia are beautiful and we can not wait to meet them in person! Children are such a gift from God and your little angels will continue to amaze you with their strength!
Our love-
David, LeeAnn and Liliana Sue

Anonymous said...

How about an update, Tom?!